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Originally Posted by Coffeesmurf  I would like this to develop into a long term relationship and my challenge for the time to come is trying to keep the pace down so I don't get totally caught up in the relationship like last time |
Long story short.. she called me today and told me that she thinks everything is moving too fast and that she needs time to think and feel where she's at. We agreed to take some time apart to think about everything and I told her not to feel any pressure from me and that I don't want to ruin anything by moving too fast - and is fine with taking it slow.
So I'm going to drop all contact with her and wait for her to get back in touch - if she does. I'm going to enjoy life as much as possible in the meantime.. and if nothing else, it has been a learning experience. The next time I date a girl, I'm going to take it nice and slow and use the golden dating rules: Don't call her until 3 days after the date, be generally unavailable and maybe see other girls at the same time. Also, I need to remember that just because I have sex with a girl I'm dating, it doesn't mean she's interested in me as a potential boyfriend
