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Originally Posted by Bitsy  For example, if you intend for a soul-mate or a loving relationship, you have to add to your intention/wording that the man in question not already be married...?? |
I would say be careful what you
believe, not what you wish for..
If you believe that anyone worth being your soul-mate or establishing a relationship with has to be already married, then that will be your experience. Every belief is a wish, but every wish is not a belief. Therefore, it is possible to wish for something and not have it. I think that is the disconnect people have in their minds. It is not what we wish for at all... It is what we believe that we experience. It is like reality is the canvas that is a reflection of what we believe to be true. You get to live out what you believe; it is some kinda manifestation of your inner most truths and they are your truths. You cannot experience someone else's truth (although you actually get to take part in it without even knowing)
I know this doesn't explain why certain "unfortunate" things happen to some people. We may never know because we would have to know exactly what they believe. But if you are having problems, whether you intended it or not, you can always intend/wish/believe to end it! It is
never hopeless! Furthermore, if you see others in trouble, you can do your best to end it for them as well. In fact, something you observe happening to others, but not happening to you directly still has connections to your beliefs.
So if you would like to have a loving relationship with someone compatible with you, you just have to go through your beliefs in this area. For example, if you don't want this person to be married, then you have to stop believing "All the good ones are taken" and "if someone is soulmate material, they must already be married".
I hope this helps.