Having been in a long-distance relationship with someone for 5 years, I have to say it is probably very hard on both persons, at least it was for me - I can't speak for the ex; and I would not recommend it to anyone. If you are unwilling to do the work to maintain this relationship running as smoothly as a normal relationship, then you need to let her go and you need to move on with your life. Sorry, but having been on this side of the fence and having experienced everything that a long-distance relationship entails, I have very strong feelings on the matter. If she is willing to sacrifice and wait around for you, the least you can do is show her some appreciation. And I feel that Valentine's Day is a necessary evil because some men are too dim-witted to remember that they need to regularly show their women how much they appreciate them.
OK, I'm done venting!
