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Originally Posted by brendannz  (why did you assume it was a HIM we were horrified by? lol.. jk)
So think I just need to worry less about them, and more on the towards-motivation.. |
Yeah, for awhile there I was writing "herm" and "(s)he" a lot, so highly defensive persons would stop asking me why I was picking on a whole gender when I arbitrarily used "him" or "her." Now I just pick one and figure I'm performing a community service for people who love to get offended.
I think especially in matters of engaging with people and having fun with them, towards-motivation really does work much better than focusing on getting away from the hurts we experienced when we were kids. The successful person focuses on what (s)he*
wants.
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