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Maybe you're right with the sentences "because I don't have to", "she knows I love her". Am I wrong thinking like that? I mean, she knows well (as being one of the leitmotiv) of my presence here in another country to continue my studies. She knows well that I could not have supported both of us with my little income there... So to become someone I came here.
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nvictor I am just recognizing this from my own experience I suppose... once you take each other for granted (or have bouts of it) things can start sliding downwards which will not improve the situation. I read a lot about 'that which you will give attention to will grow/thrive' on the forums. Makes a lot of sense to me.
From your response I gather that you
both agreed for you to go overseas to persue your studies. In this case though that's not what this is about. I think Michelle is right on the money. Anyway, ask your girlfriend what she thinks about what's happening with you two, or better yet, give her a phonecall. Good luck to you both.