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Originally Posted by Magnatolia  Hey all,
To summarise what I want, I would like to gain more automatic confidence, self-esteem, charisma, desirability.
I want to look at a woman and have her curious to meet me, attracted, and have her feel completely desired and wanted. Not worried about whether she will be interested or not, just completely accepting of how I'm feeling and letting her feel this.
I want to unconsciously command attention wherever I go, especially from women. So if I walk into a room people notice me, find them moving towards me, wanting to get to know me.
I want automatic confidence and self-esteem, so that I take the appropriate action unconsciously, whether that be talking to a woman, or speaking up at work. Obviously this is something to work towards so it is easier and more natural for me to feel and act this way.
Which products would you recommend that can automatically instill the necessary beliefs and thoughts, and remove the negative thoughts, fears and beliefs?
Thanks heaps! |
as Talkofthetown919 mentioned, if you want women to feel these things about you, you need to feel them yourself. if you felt them already about yourself, i don't think you'd be asking us about it. so you might want to start there, and starting with self-esteem is probably a good one. when we develop a healthier level of self-esteem a lot of other things fall into place without effort. you might find some success with EFT, you can find videos on YouTube to show you step by step how to do this.
as he also mentioned, you might not want to have every type of girl attracted to you. some women see confidence and they think the guy is cocky and egocentric. some women see charisma and think it is a sign of insecurity. but if it is showing up at levels that seem healthy, then i don't think these women would see it as insecurity. ...and also, no offense intended to my fellow females, but some women are just plain crazy (not really meant in the chemical imbalance sense). you might not want all of them around.
charisma in men comes from the sixth chakra, in the groin region. you might want to research visualizations and meditations that look at blocked chakras and how to clear those blockages. but my personal opinion is that it is better to start with self-esteem and see what else will change on its own. this depends on your intentions and whether you're more interested in the quality of your encounters with women, or more interested in the quantity.