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Old 09-19-2009, 05:49 AM   #20 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Steve Pavlina View Post
The irony is that Man Transformation teaches a similar mindset. At least one of the speakers -- I don't recall which one(s) -- offers a much more detailed explanation of what it means to live an exciting life that will make you naturally more attractive.
This makes me skeptical of this program. If you try to do something in order to make yourself more attractive, women will still see you for what you are: needy and insecure. Plus you just make yourself unhappy, because you're living up to other people's standards, rather than your own. Couldn't get any more inauthentic than that!

Go and live an exciting life because you want to, but not because it will make you more attractive. If you'd rather live a quiet, simple existence, then that is what you should do.

Steve, have you had the chance to see The Blueprint Decoded? It's probably very similar to this program, except the Blueprint focusses on moving guys away from their egos and neediness and towards real self-esteem. It's pretty groundbreaking IMO and has helped me change almost every aspect of my life for the better. I'm a bit of a fan-boy actually because it's had such a big impact on me. I highly recommend you check it out - your readers would get a lot of value out of it
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