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Old 09-18-2009, 02:39 PM   #28 (permalink)
karmaisborn
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Originally Posted by Cyllya View Post
While it's great to have some of the same friends since childhood, I think it's most important to have friends who love you for who you are and who you want to be. Even longtime friends aren't that valuable if they only love you for who you used to be or who you're pretending to be. I think real friends will stick with you throughout your changes.
Well, the fear was more of me not sticking with them than the other way around...When you grow as a person, many times you aren't able to respect/love your close ones the same way as before, in case they remain the same...

Admist all changes, you need a kind of stability...For e.g. the stability Erin provides in Steve's life..

Anyways, can't avoid it..Have to grow, even at the risk of losing them...May be I'll find some one who provides me that stability...Or i'll discover stability in instability...
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