[bellbird]

Maybe you can look at it like she is expressing her dissapointment, but possibly try not to go 'poor me' sort of thing. It's very likely there are either a) more things going on leading up to now or b) just that: she was hoping you would make more of an effort. Can I just ask you whether there's chance you are taking her a bit for granted? I don't mean to be nasty but sometimes in a relationship people can get a bit sloppy with each other (long distance certainly not making things easier), not making an effort "because I don't have to", "we're together for quite some time etc", and "she knows I love her". Yeah. I've read something a while ago which I thought was a sensible thing to say: are you treating your partner as your best friend? (And thereby valueing them as being most important?) If not, why not? Am I making sense here? Just trying.