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Old 02-15-2007, 01:23 AM   #10 (permalink)
ElizaJ
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Default Losing Something

Wolfgang,
Just wanted to remind you of a quote from a movie: Sometimes, when you lose, you win. My take on this is the obvious, when you lose something then you end up winning something else. If you lose your girlfriend, which sounds as if you are ready to end the relationship anyway, this will open up the opportunity for you to be free and meet someone else more easily. If you are with her then you are still bound to her, however loosely, and it will create barriers for you to attract someone new into your life. Once you are truly free from the relationship, this will help you focus all your energies in finding someone new. Right now you are scattering your energies by continuing your relationship with her and trying to find someone new at the same time.

Hope this helps!

ElizaJ
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