ElizaJ,
Don't know much about wicca but that part sounds kind of natural. I'll try not to hijack this thread too much. But while most are looking to LoA to attract a special partner, I'm looking for the same but am still "with" someone now.
I have thought looking for a special partner weather you are with someone or not is the same in terms of doing the IM work. Intending to have a relationship that I would perfer to have. The one I'm with may not be the one but if I can be clear, then this relationship will resolve (or dissolve).
But then again, doing IM work while with someone I kind of already know isn't working is difficult. I'm in a continual "this is kind of not what I want" mode - since I start to form my decision about the kind of realtionship I want and even though she and I are doing fine on the outside - there's just something missing.
But now maybe, after your post, I think it's different to be in a relatiinship and looking for a special partner. But not completly sure how to do the IM work to test what I already have, so if it's not it - I'll be breaking up and attracting what my IM work states. I supppose I could use the "if she's fitting what I want for a relationship, then stay - if not then go". I'll have to ponder how to IM that.
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