Hey there!
I'm not far up the road from Calgary! (Olds) I'd definitely come out to one of your shows sometime!
As for doing what you love, I quit my full time (and great paying job) last fall to work for myself. It was awesome at first, but when the recession hit, I had no work at all. I've been back and forth in the meantime, working jobs I hate, and jobs I dont really mind. Always in the back of my mind is the nagging thought that "I dont want to do this."
Being able to do what you want is great, it just takes some time and effort to get there. Never let go of that dream, and always keep working towards it. Just because things arent great right now doesnt mean that they wont get better.
Keep at it, work a terrible job if you have to.. it's just a step towards your goal right?