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Old 09-04-2009, 02:13 PM   #30 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by seeker5 View Post
That's actually something similar to what I did a few years ago. I was tired of being scared of even minor rejection, so my goal was to get rejected 10 times a day. If I said hi to someone and they didn't respond, that was 1 rejection I could check mark. If I asked someone if I could do something for them, and they didn't want me to, that was another rejection to add. It seems crazy looking back I wouldn't offer things to people, even to my closest friend because I didn't want to get rejected...! Anyway, I did that for a while, aimed to get 10 little rejections a day. It was awesome, anytime I'd get a little rejection, I'd cheer inside myself because I'd get to add another checkmark on my list of 10/day*. After doing this for a while, it didn't bother me anymore these little rejections and it helped me improve my acceptance of rejection that before I couldn't accept.
That's awesome. I like it.
Will try it myself.
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