My advice for avoiding this situation in the future is to be very clear about this up front--a huge number of people (women and men) do watch porn and do not think of it as violating monogamous agreements in the least, so they should know from the get-go that you consider this cheating. It's not wrong at all for you to feel the way you do, or to have any sort of relationship requirement that isn't the norm, but it is on you to make sure you not asking something out of the norm from partners without warning. |