Hi Farryn
I'm sorry it didnt work out between you and your boyfriend. You have shown incredible courage and honesty to end a relationship that wasnt working. In your posts you come across as a very caring, considerate and loving person. There are lots and lots of men out there who really appreciate those qualities in a person. When you're ready you'll be able to find someone you are happy with, trust me!
I re-read your posts and am at a loss as to why Matthew thinks you were looking for people to back you up rather than for advice. I was surprised at the extreme negative reaction you got from some of the other posters in this thread too! I thought that since this was a personal development forum people would be more compassionate than average joes.
Trust yourself and your feelings. You are as important as everybody else, and your feelings are important and they do matter. If anybody tries to tell you that you are a bad person for having feelings understand that they are not being truthful.
My best wishes are with you!!  |