Specifics does not help the manifesting process.. you see you’re all..
You: It has to come this way and in this shape
Universe is saying: Due to the specifics of your limitation reality.. I work best as slight of hand..
You: But I want to think about this.. and ego it out
Universe: It's not your job to think.. just send your request and leave it
(just so were clear nothing wrong with specifics.. but when you insist the universe has to come through this little hole.. when it can bypass that wall.. you are limiting your manifesting powers.. see?
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So what would I do if I were you?
I would kick back.. allow.. chill and if you want your husband to feel that way.. then send that out there.. the best thing you can choose to do help/influence another is be yourself.. be a shining example..
I spent 2 years trying to buy a house?
The result.. = I just gave up.. let go.. and kicked back.. interestingly enough I've had some decent offers since then.. but nothing at all that I felt like acting on....