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I know about "cool" people. I just used them as an example. It's the idea that most other people in general have a "life" and I don't is what gets me down.
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Glad to hear it. Based on your reply then I think the best option you have is to work out what you want your life to be like - and then to make that a daily reality. Of course that's when you'll run up against some of the fears that you currently can't handle.
From the sounds of things you're a bit of an introvert (you dislike parties, you're very quiet, you don't have many close friends) but you'd like to be an extrovert. Have you thought of trying to embrace your introversy and seeing if you can enjoy it? I know that most people's definition of fun is being out with a bunch of friends, but trust me - friends can be at times quite, how shall we say, ****.
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The only time I seemed to function normally was when I was out with my skateboarding pals.
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That's good... did you find it easier to function with these people because of their nature, or because you knew them well? I've known skater's before and there pretty relaxed and laidback. Perhaps that's the group of friends you'd like to look for now? A bunch of really cool and laidback people. Not immature, but relaxed and free?