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Old 08-28-2009, 05:47 PM   #25 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by cylon View Post
There's a difference between empathy, and enabling.
Agreed. If you *need* empathy from others, otherwise you blame them for your bad feelings and judge them as bad/wrong/narcissistic, you're choosing to live as a chronic victim (It's a valid choice -- nothing wrong with that -- just not very powerful or effective in getting the results you want, or feeling good.)
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