[QUOTE=Juki Schor;404372] Why is it that some people need contrast in order to clarify their desires while others don't seem to have this problem?
It's like ice-cream, you know.
Some people have to try three or four flavours before they can decide on the one they want. Others say, "I want rum & raisin!" straightaway.
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...and somehow I can't buy into this theory, it feels dishonest to me to brush it off that way.
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This sounds like you doubt the existence of ice-cream, just because some people need to try different flavours.