I am not sure Judge's method will work for everyone. Every member of my family is an alcoholic. Except me. Even my husband would be an alcoholic if I would let him, but I won't.
It is not in thinking you deserve something. It is in KNOWING and EXPECTING that what you deserve you can attain. There are plenty of bitter people out there who deeply feel that they deserve a lot of things. That is part of the reason they are bitter. By god, they deserve it and don't have it. Successful people aren't wasting time worrying about what they deserve. They are just out there getting it. They can, so they do.The rest of us worry about whether we can, so we don't.
How in the hell you get to where you don't worry about it any more, I dunno. I think it probably does lie in using the kind of positive self-talk I have been reading about in all these books on the LOA.
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