[HOOKnLADDER]

I have been dating my gf for 4 yrs now. We started off really strong. I too also put looks a little bit on the side and fell in love with a lot of traits in her personality. We moved in actually very quickly because it was so much more conveinant because of distance, gas, and time. We get along great but I am having the same issues with looks. They seem to have creeped up on me. Its so hard though because for the first time I actually found a gf that has a lot that I look for in a wife. The problem is that everything I don't like about our relationship kinda all falls back on her weight. I will go a little more in depth if you would like me to. I really need some bias advice because I have felt like this for a year now. I sit here and weigh my pros and cons and there are always more pros than the cons but the cons are weighted so heavily that it always balances 50/50 between them and then I just get frustrated. I have to be honest that I am a little scared to call it off because I would royally regret it if I find out weeks, months, later that I made a big mistake for being shallow.