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my daughter married a guy on her 18th b.d. and all of a sudden she was in domestic violence for yrs. i was on call for like 7 yrs.to come and get her at 2 a.m. cause he was hitting her.when she was p.g.he grabbed her hair and smashed her face into the car window and kicked her back when he threw her down.i can not tell u all the stuff i did to be there for her-AS I WAS FOR MY MOTHER WHO WAS IN VIOLENCE IN HER MARRIAGE.My daughter being in this made me so mad.but i tried and tried.to call the domestic violence people and have them talk some sense in her.they talked with her and she handed me back the phone and they told me "she is not ready".so yrs of more crap.taking care of her kids cause she could not trust her hubby to take care of his own kids.and we found out we were right.he can not be trusted with those boys.so i called a minister and i wanted him to go see her and talk to them both(i asked my girls permission first).the last bad act he did was throw a brand new laptop at her and if it had hit her...she would of been dead.he left.he came back one day after this minister prayed with me over the phone and he never went to see her.i thought he was sort of lame...the prayer worked.the creepy hubby came over one day and gave her a new computer and the kids a x-box360-and left.he shows up to give them all food from costco and leaves.we could not get rid of him for yrs. he always had to flop at her house and they would argue every minute.the prayer from the preacher is what finally worked.all my yrs of trouble s of tyring to help her and her kids and all i did....a prayer from a godly man did it.so good luck.it is soooo draining to tend to someone who is not ready yet. u have to find a way to preserve yourself.it is very hard.good luck.taylor2
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