Try to stop thinking and allow your intuition/higher Self to guide you. Logic is fallible, but I think you've had instances of "gut feelings" and so on which usually always prove to be right. And like what others have said, they aren't even "your" arguments, they're basically flotsam and jetsam out in the collective consciousness that your mind, like a radio, tuned into through the desire and interest in thinking itself. Just withdraw complete interest in your thoughts; various meditations like "being the witness", observing your thoughts go by without judgment or participation, will eventually stop them from intruding on your peace of mind. You'll realize that once you stop thinking, your comprehension of events and situations actually become even clearer. It's like seeing the forest instead of the trees; you become aware of the complete situation, rather than picking at details.
Surrender all arguments, thoughts, and positionalities to God/the universe; just let God carry the burden of sorting it out. I don't mean this from a religious standpoint, but more of from a practical viewpoint. None of these debates or thoughts actually have any meaning to them, they're based on hypothetical realities and situations that won't come up anyway. When something needs to be done or voiced, it will be at that time. No point trying to control the outcome.
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