You have to accept yourself where you are.
Tell yourself all your decisions that you have made are perfect and that you could not have made any other decision than the one you made. Remind yourself that you wish to act in your own self-interest, therefore the decision you just made must be consistent with your self-interest at this time. Even if the decision was "bad" you have gained something valuable out of that decision. This thought process allows you to release the guilt and accept yourself. Only once you accept yourself where you are will you be able to move forward.
This sounds a bit crazy and counter-intuitive, but I have used it with good success so far in breaking some bad habits. By the Law of Attraction, feeding guilt into the situation will only bring you more of what you don't want.
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