JSB: Well I wouldn't put too much importance on the initial stages of our relationship because everything was exciting at that point, including the sex. But when that part ended, all that was left was a good friendship. So what I'm thinking is that nothing really changed, it was more like, there was nothing there to begin with (other than friendship). Not sure if that makes sense.
Nani: Thanks for the kind words! She actually did consult me with her plans, but I felt that she ignored how I didn't give a straight forward answer so that she can continue dreaming. You're right that communication on this subject was terribly lacking, but aside from this, our communication was pretty good.
I do agree with you about the fact that we were on different wavelengths (in terms of goals) and how it affected other aspects of our relationship. It could very well be the main factor that affected intimacy.
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