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Originally Posted by Steve Pavlina  How did you increase the visibility there to make progress in that area?
I know a lot of people make big strides by having someone else watch them interact with the opposite sex. |
With me, it came all at once when I finally got up the courage to ask a girl out. The way I went about it was actually hilariously bad, to the point where she must have thought I was doing that on purpose or something. Like, "Ummm... I could be your boyfriend... if you want..." Before, I'd always been hiding behind the old "I could get a girlfriend, I just don't want to commit to that right now" screen. Rejection opened my eyes to how much I'd been fooling myself.
As for improving once I was aware of the problem... joining the seduction community and then approaching hundreds of hot girls at clubs, probably helped
