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Originally Posted by KazeCraven  ... it sounds like the sexual attraction just fades into an invisible bond, whereas a lack of sexual attraction breeds separation. |
I think you nailed it.
Kalbo: My only further suggestion would be to look at the rapid loss of sexual attraction you had with her, especially since it was there in the first place.
Was she just not "the one"? Did her behavior or appearance change? Did something else change in her, you or the relationship? Do you just not feel ready to commit to one person right now? Are you just easily bored? Have you had any health issues that might affect hormone levels? What was the nature of the initial attraction? Etc.
The more answers you can get now, the easier it will be to find the right partner in the future.