JSB: I actually do think you're on to something when you say that sexual attraction needs to be there at the beginning to allow the couple to get closer in the long run. I don't think it's a good sign if a relatively young man (I'm 28 btw) finds it a bit difficult to have sexual relations with his partner. And it's not like she's a physically unattractive person, I did after all, find her attractive enough to pursue her at the beginning and we did have great sex during that honeymoon phase. But after that part ended, my attraction toward her really took a nosedive.
KazeCraven: Thanks for the encouraging words. In my last post I stated that we have decided to go on a break so I can reflect on the relationship. So far it has been 4 days since the break and as it stands, I'm about 90% sure that it's over. I'm still not clear as to why I lost (or never had) that emotional connection with her, but the thing that I'm almost certain about is that I will never get it back. And without that, there really is no point in continuing on with the relationship.
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