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Originally Posted by Reynaldo  Marriages fail because of blame: It is a factor which forces many marriages to fail. There are many instances where men blame their wives and then they hold their wives responsible for the problems in marriage. Their married lives revolve around a single subject and that becomes blame.
Men must understand that their wives are not the problem in their marriages. It is them because of which all the problems arise. Men must understand that it is because of men that the wives adopt different behaviors. One must treat his wife with love and affection that forces her to reciprocate the same. |
I am a "wife" and i actually take great offence at this post... Wifes are not things... women (and men) are people.
Where 2 fight, 2 are to blame.
I agree with the first part of your post, you shouldn't blame, and always look at yourself first, see what you can do to improve. It is never the fault of only 1 person.