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Originally Posted by Lonewolf  Zan's site is interesting, except that I think he forgets one unsettling truth - NASTY GUYS ALWAYS GET THE GIRLS . The reason, explored in Pick Up Guide: Maniac High's Pick Up Girls Guide and Seduction Website! is that women are instinctively attracted to dominance and that this can often come with an egocentric personality. Nice guys are inevitably seen as wimps, because their niceness makes them easy to control (they have no choice to be anything else).
I think personal development along the lines of confidence and (more importantly) action are an essential part of any PU. Remember though that there is always a power struggle going on at some level in relationships; being nice or submissive puts you in a weaker and losing position. By this I don't mean give up being gentlemanly, but rather keep your niceness in balance with what you actually want and keep in control of the situation at all times.
Successfully undertaking a PU is a massive boost in confidence and is objective proof of success. It is also great fun. |
Well, I do agree that there may be power struggle present in relationships. But to actually allow this to continue manifesting can be harmful. A couple who is conscious of how much bargaining power he/she has on the other party will never truly enjoy the happiness of being together.
Using PU tactics to get to know a girl whom you sincerely is attracted to is by all means fine. But using that as a proof of success? Maybe there should be more to it than just the number of hits vs misses.