It's a dumb idea mostly due to his justification. Society IS a trap. There's no point in limit this just to a relationship. Friendships, jobs, children etc., They require a commitment from you. Essentially, having more than one girl, from a logical point of view, means you're more trapped because it requires twice the commitment. He has to give 100% to both of them not 50%. There's a threshold to keep both women satisfied AND still call it a relationship. In my opinion, I think both of them are either booty calls or one is a true girlfriend and the other some sort of mistress. I mean. They're two hours away. If I was serious about polyamory I'd have both of them in close proximity. Or even in the same household.
There other loop holes.
Has he talked to the other girls about you?
How girlfriends does he need until he doesn't feel "trapped"?
What exactly is a relationship if the two girls are allowed to date?
If I was a man in a poor community who was slightly more well off than the average population. I might consider the option of more than one wife. But there is a limit. More than two or three women is pushing it.
This guy better be downright honest, hardworking and gorgeous if he wants some plausibility on his end.
I'm certainly not against whatever he's doing. But he better start creating his own definitions for whatever he's doing.
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