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Originally Posted by saintssupporter  I dont become offended at all, Im intrigued more so by the view points held. So she walks into a nightclub, a bloke walks up and says "Hi I like you , can I buy you a drink", she should sleep with him to keep him? Sleeping with someone straight away while no problem if you know yourself is going to be a one night stand but if you see something more I think the risk is higher of being humped and dumped. Any guys interested will wait...why should she feel pressured to having sex with him? |
This sounds more like pressure to NOT have sex. What if she likes the guy, and also feels like getting it on that night? I don't see how not-having-sex relates to good-relationship. Any sexual relationship based on not-having-sex just sounds contradictory.
And really - if it turns out that he views sex in that way, or views women who have sex in that way - wouldn't she want to know that up front? (I would). It might affect whether she wants to have a long-term relationship with the guy.