Be good in the bedroom where the fu<k did all this advice come out of! I dumped a guy because I was pressured into sex and frankly Im glad I did. If you want your hole as they say there is no problem getting that, flirt like mad and etc etc and sex will come along but if you want a relationship hold out on the guy and build up a mutual understanding. I really must be either a) Im alone in this opinion or b) Maybe its because I am a European
Im a big guy and Im happy with the way I am, its others who have the problem with me being the weight I am. If any of you were told by your partners to lose a few lbs I can guarantee you would be quick enough to kick them to the kerb. Im going to just say sometimes its no harm asking for the advice of an internet forum but in this case Im laughing myself silly at some of the advice as I am sure some are at mine! As for taking an interest in his life, do if you have a mutual understanding but there is usually enough common ground there such as politics, books, computers, life experiences etc. to discover you do have enough in common....