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Originally Posted by kwicherbichen  Yeah, I felt like you did. I would trust someone and they would really disappointment. They'd end up not being the mutual friend I was hoping for or leaving me behind or something like that.
It was hard because I felt like I was putting A LOT into others. I'm not naturally a girl's girl and boys just want to ****. It is incredibly hard for me to have a meaningful friendship. It hurt because I felt like I was trying so hard and getting nothing in return. So this quote
pisses me off. Whenever I have a problem and someone implies that I am not putting IN enough, I get really pissed off.
Well... I decided to just screw everyone for a while and figure out who I am, what I like in people, what people like in me, etc. I found that there were certain people who were reaching out to me, even in my temporary reclusion. Those people, I kept an eye on. I gave more to them. I started keeping anyone who reached out to me closer to me and reached out to them as much as I could. I eventually was better able to feel who is my friend or wants to be and who isn't. And I don't feel offended about these type of matters anymore. |
Sorry didn't mean to piss you off with that quote
Was just a thought..
I suppose another way to look at it, is if everybody kissed your ass everywhere you went and everything you did, life would be pretty boring and pointless.. and so the people who've let you down have given meaning to your meaningful friends..