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rawxstasy · 08-17-2009, 04:38 PM

I don't think you mentioned that you felt attracted to her. I think that is very important for a long term relationship.

However, for some reason, I'm just not that crazy over her and I never really was.

That statement jumped out at me. I can understand that. I ended up marrying a guy that I never was in love with. We were more like companions. Big mistake.

Also, you can get tired of someone who is "the one" for you. But there should be some balance, we all need time away from our partner. There are lots of people who can be "the one".

I think you should maybe take a break from the relationship, maybe that can give you some more clarity. There are some books out there on soulmates/the one. Those might also help you see what a relationship should be.

08-17-2009, 04:38 PM	#8 (permalink)
rawxstasy Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Madison, WI Posts: 961	I don't think you mentioned that you felt attracted to her. I think that is very important for a long term relationship. However, for some reason, I'm just not that crazy over her and I never really was. That statement jumped out at me. I can understand that. I ended up marrying a guy that I never was in love with. We were more like companions. Big mistake. Also, you can get tired of someone who is "the one" for you. But there should be some balance, we all need time away from our partner. There are lots of people who can be "the one". I think you should maybe take a break from the relationship, maybe that can give you some more clarity. There are some books out there on soulmates/the one. Those might also help you see what a relationship should be.