I love when people say that "looks don't matter", but you know they wouldn't date an "ugly" person with a great personality. I'm more honest about that, especially with myself, and I know that, for me, yes, I want personality, but also chemistry of all kinds, including physical, which only happens if I'm attracted to them physically. I'm fairly attractive, and I am not attracted to a lot of people that are generally unattractive. Call me shallow, but I know that I deserve a full, well-rounded relationship, which includes physical chemistry - and I think everyone does, everyone that wants one.
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