I liked this write up on this topic:
The Law of Allowance in Relationships - The Universe of Power
Basically I get from that write up that you can't control someone else and vice versa. So trying to get someone to love you is not the approach - but rather to allow them to and the best way to allow is to be in the state you wish to be experiencing as if they love you. I guess.
Consequently, or in another application, I am trying to define or decide how I want my relationship to be with a partner in hopes of clarifying what the heck I'm doing with the one I'm with and not being able to completly leave her yet still on the fence about being with her.
In other words, while some are appliying IM/LoA to generate the feelings that will attract a mate - there are maybe some like me already in something that may not be working and want to apply IM/LoA to resolve the realtionship (stay or go).
I wonder how many or if anyone reading this have succesfully applied LoA to resolve a relationship. And if so, would love to hear about that.