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Old 08-16-2009, 01:04 AM   #3 (permalink)
Kean
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Yes, you can win her back, but as usual, I think there's no point in making general rules...

it always and entirely depends on the individual situation.

Some suggest "No Contact", but that may be totally out-of-place if the girlfriend broke up because e.g. she felt that he wasn't communicating enough with her!
Others suggest not to call and cry since that would seem needy... but also this depends on the individual girl and the reasons why the break-up happened.

What may be universally important is to understand the causes of the break-up, and be ready to improve on those in the best way possible.

Finally, think positive!

A positive attitude should lead to positive results and also help you think and behave with a clear mind when you're around the girl, decide whether to act strategically or not, etc.

Again, remember: not all women are the same, and not all break-ups are the same.

The girl may have thought about it for a long time, planned it beforehand, already have a lover and potential new boyfriend, but the girl may also be simply testing him, or trying to see how life is as a "single" person.

In either case...
- understand causes
- have a clear mind
- stay positive!
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