Roxon,
"She has asked me to keep talking even if she doesnt respond. She lives 1000 miles away and i cant visit so I text and write."
Your friend specifically told you what she would like....
Her request/need is similar to people who have recently lost a loved one. Wanting to hear from the outside world, but not ready or able to respond to that contact. Often they love the weekly phone message, even though the giver gets no feedback or response that makes them feel that this phone message is even wanted.
It may feel silly to you, but may be a lovely gift to your friend. You could email her each week, in detail, about your life, what's happening, your goals, hopes and dreams, your past times together etc....You could record and email it, or telephone (emailing first to warn and let her know that you are only calling to leave a voice message)
You could also let her know, that if there is anything else she needs or that you could do, to just let you know and it is hers.
Another cool thing to do is to share love. If you get yourself relaxed, and breathe slowly and quiet your thoughts and feelings, then take a couple of big breaths in, and think of your friend, let your care and love for her grow, let yourself feel how special she has been in your life, just let the memories and love emotions fill you to overflowing.
When you reach that point, imagine the smile within you bursting through your belly button or the top of your head, and going through the air, right to your friend, and wrapping around her. See, feel, know your arms are wrapping around and giving this beautiful being the biggest hug that you can give her...now feel the energy go from you to her...
You can stand in your home, relax, then put your hands out on her shoulders, and she will feel the warmth, as she does the love hug...
Play with it, have fun....and enjoy sharing love.....isn't that what this is all about anyway?
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