And just a second thought, just from reading past posts, there seems to be two camps of people when talking about relationships--- 1. that if you and another person are a good match, it shouldn't be hard work to keep a relationship or 2. that even relationships with great qualities take a lot of work to keep going.
If my relationship is taking real effort right now, does that mean we are incompatible? At what point does relationship maintenance turn into trying too hard to make things work?
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