First, if you have a history of talking without doing its fair for people to believe you will do the same this time.
Second you have to do for you, when you start doing the things you talk about people will change their perception of you.
If you are already in the middle of doing what you want to do and people are still being discouraging, it's likely because people want whats familiar and you changing your habits would force them to change their perceptions of you.
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