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Originally Posted by James81  As for your issue with your family? Consider the idea that you are telling people what you are GOING to do because you crave the attention and not necessarily because you want to do it. A good way to see if this is the case is to make a personal resolve with yourself (like I had to do) that you aren't going to tell people what you are going to do. You are only going to tell them what you have DONE.
That will get you a much better, more supportive reaction. |
Wouldn't this be the same ? Hell, I find that this would be an even bigger attention incentive. Because I actually DID it, instead of talking about DOING it. I guess my ego already made the distinction between the achievement value of these 2 separate things.