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Originally Posted by dulaney0330  I have never been in an open relationship, although I have dated more than one guy at a time (not sure if that counts). While it was fun and I indulged my youth, there was still this part of me that wanted to feel special and I didn't feel that in an open relationship. While that wasn't the whole reason for my insight, I enjoy committing myself to one person. It's easy to date many people but its tough work to remain loyal. Perhaps that is where the ultimate fulfillment lies. |
Just for clarification... I feel special in my relationship, I fully commit myself to my husband. I am 100% loyal to him, and yes this is not always easy.
In my opinion this has nothing to do with open or closed relationships.
It is ok if you feel that closed is better for you, but it doesn't have to be for everybody, as i read in your last sentence. (I could miss read, but that is how it comes across for me).