You sound like you might be young. All you have to do is start doing what you are talking about. Then you should get the support you want. It's an easy fix as there is action you can take. You don't have to be mentally stuck.
I say you might be young, as it is usually young people who will surprise by finally letting their true self come through. And their "elders" will most likely try to continue to control them.
As far as people not taking you seriously in general? I have that experience with someone right now. they will always be an aquaintance rather than a friend because of it.
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