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Declan JJ Lestat · 08-13-2009, 12:41 PM

I notice you say you still want to be friends because his friends are now yours too. Nothing about your relationship with him as an individual.

If you really value his friendship - and it doesn't sound like he values yours much - then make the effort to keep contact. If on the otherhand your reasons for wanting to keep him in your universe are for less empowering reasons, I'd encourage you to make a break. Sometimes, it's just not possible to be friends after a breakup.

As for your mutual friends, this could be you find which are really your friends...

But bear in mind, it's really difficult to find your true Mr Right, while you're spending time with an ex-Mr Wrong.

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Declan JJ Lestat Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 57	I notice you say you still want to be friends because his friends are now yours too. Nothing about your relationship with him as an individual. If you really value his friendship - and it doesn't sound like he values yours much - then make the effort to keep contact. If on the otherhand your reasons for wanting to keep him in your universe are for less empowering reasons, I'd encourage you to make a break. Sometimes, it's just not possible to be friends after a breakup. As for your mutual friends, this could be you find which are really your friends... But bear in mind, it's really difficult to find your true Mr Right, while you're spending time with an ex-Mr Wrong.