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Miia · 08-12-2009, 09:39 PM

See my days are cold without you
But I'm hurtin while im with you
And though my heart can't take no more
I keep on running back to you
See my days are cold without you
But I'm hurtin while im with you
And though my heart can't take no more
I keep on running back to you

Forgive me for being corny but this song ("Foolish" by Ashanti) sums up the situation I am in. Not 100% but close...

First, thank you all for reading and replying (a little soon for that I know:P). I hate dumping my problems like this but I guess this is the place for it.

My problem is that... im mad because i am in love. in LOVE. this love makes me accept/tolerate things that I probably shouldn`t. No, he is not beating me. And most of the time he is FABULOUS.
But a few days ago he did something that was very rude and hurt me. He crossed a line that should not be crossed. He made me feel humiliated. We have discussed it (after I cooled down) and he apologized and tryed to explain why he did what he did. And, I understood that but it does not change the fact of what he did. It can never be erased and I am having a hard time forgeting it (this is something since I usually don`t stay mad for a long time)...
Now, one part of me (my dignity and pride) feels like walking away and forgetting him. There are certain things that cannot be forgiven. In my opinion he crossed that line. T
The other part of me loves him SO much that I am willing to forget it... really, that part wants to forget all the bad things and be happy again, with him, in eternal bliss (picture two happy people on a sunny white beach surrounded with butterflies and pink flowers). I just want everything to be right again. I love him so much.

Pride or love? Or am I missing something?

08-12-2009, 09:39 PM	#1 (permalink)
Miia Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 284	Foolish See my days are cold without you But I'm hurtin while im with you And though my heart can't take no more I keep on running back to you See my days are cold without you But I'm hurtin while im with you And though my heart can't take no more I keep on running back to you Forgive me for being corny but this song ("Foolish" by Ashanti) sums up the situation I am in. Not 100% but close... First, thank you all for reading and replying (a little soon for that I know:P). I hate dumping my problems like this but I guess this is the place for it. My problem is that... im mad because i am in love. in LOVE. this love makes me accept/tolerate things that I probably shouldn`t. No, he is not beating me. And most of the time he is FABULOUS. But a few days ago he did something that was very rude and hurt me. He crossed a line that should not be crossed. He made me feel humiliated. We have discussed it (after I cooled down) and he apologized and tryed to explain why he did what he did. And, I understood that but it does not change the fact of what he did. It can never be erased and I am having a hard time forgeting it (this is something since I usually don`t stay mad for a long time)... Now, one part of me (my dignity and pride) feels like walking away and forgetting him. There are certain things that cannot be forgiven. In my opinion he crossed that line. T The other part of me loves him SO much that I am willing to forget it... really, that part wants to forget all the bad things and be happy again, with him, in eternal bliss (picture two happy people on a sunny white beach surrounded with butterflies and pink flowers). I just want everything to be right again. I love him so much. Pride or love? Or am I missing something?