I agree, as well. You don't have to love it, but try not to hate it. Mostly, I just send people like that love vibes. They probably need them more than anyone.
If you are feeling really naughty, you can entertain yourself by messing with them. When you get a real ♥♥♥♥♥-and-moaner, try suddenly smiling and saying something positive, right in the middle of their whine. It's more fun if it's random. Like "I saw seven stingrays when I was in Floriday last year!" With a big grin. It's so random and so weird, it stops them dead and they often forget what they were B&Ming about. Tony Robbins calls that a state-changer. Then say "Oh sorry, what were you saying?" Most people can tell you are goofing on them which sometimes breaks the spell of being a whiner for them. Most people will not seek to do something that others pick on them for.
People should be held accountable for the level of drama they spew in the world. That's my motto.
Jennifer
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