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Grey · 08-11-2009, 07:58 PM

Having continued to work towards a positive, constructive and loving future, with a positive, constructive and loving attitude, I've developed a serious impatience for those who constantly put themselves down, or look to be saved from their situation. I've come very far, and found that alot of people I know are this way, and I consciously chose them as friends back when I myself was looking to be saved, but now in all honesty, having gone from someone who was very willing, eager even to sit someone down and comfort them, I can't stand it when people ♥♥♥♥♥ and moan about situations they create coming back to bite them. I create conflict when I furiously try to explain they are only futhering their misery by blaming everyone else but themselves.

This being the situation, I have to say I don't resent these people, nor bear them ill will - I simply cannot stand and react to the self defeatism with hostility. Is this a patience I will relearn, from a more developed place, or is it part and parcel of being a mildly ruthless young man?

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Grey Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 26	An intolerance of those with negative self talk Having continued to work towards a positive, constructive and loving future, with a positive, constructive and loving attitude, I've developed a serious impatience for those who constantly put themselves down, or look to be saved from their situation. I've come very far, and found that alot of people I know are this way, and I consciously chose them as friends back when I myself was looking to be saved, but now in all honesty, having gone from someone who was very willing, eager even to sit someone down and comfort them, I can't stand it when people ♥♥♥♥♥ and moan about situations they create coming back to bite them. I create conflict when I furiously try to explain they are only futhering their misery by blaming everyone else but themselves. This being the situation, I have to say I don't resent these people, nor bear them ill will - I simply cannot stand and react to the self defeatism with hostility. Is this a patience I will relearn, from a more developed place, or is it part and parcel of being a mildly ruthless young man?