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Originally Posted by jamesbiz  It's ok that people have ego's. We are weak minded ( honestly, we really are. Don't believe me, then try your best to stop your mind from chattering at ANY one point in time) and we will succumb to that. But to actually seek out and admit to wanting your ego stroked, with what you feel in your heart are lies? This is a website for self improvement. What you should be saying is " I don't NEED their words. I might want them, but I'm on my way to transcending the need for it as I become a better overall person". |
Food for thought...
I donīt NEED it, but I want it.
I want my husband to like me, to tell me I am beautiful etc. Is that really just ego talking? I always thought it would be normal. Why would you want to be with somebody who does not think you are beautiful...?
I know that I am not the best looking girl in the world, although I do look good. Yet it makes me feel very good when my husband tells me that he thinks I am.. Is that also just ego talking and do people who are "more developed" not want that?
I donīt care btw if he says other people are pretty or beautiful too.. i just want him to tell me I am the most beautiful...
hmmm... iīll think about that.. Would like your opinion on the other thread as well, if you have time.