Jamesbiz, seriously, the kind of girl who reads dating advice from a dating blogger (

) on Marie Claire, isn't the kind of girl you want to date. Not for a guy on "Personal Development for Smart People" forums anyway. Raise your bar and you will find people living there already.
That said, there are enough screwed up girls out there, who've been taught that their only value is their looks. Mothers of daughters -- we have a lot of work to do, because your daughters
will hang around these girls.